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The Cleo Collector

The Cleo Collector

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When You don't have many in real live is amazing how though You have never met face to face people on the net on forum like this can become your closest friend, like family, and your anchor.

If I did not have such wonderful friends on here I prob be either dead or in a metal hospital. You guy help keep me going and that means a lot to me.

I just want to share this and say thank you all and I just would hug you ( which is rare for me) if I ever meet you. Yall and this board makes me want to keep going. Ponies help and Ponies bring people together.
 
Ology said:
When You don't have many in real live is amazing how though You have never met face to face people on the net on forum like this can become your closest friend, like family, and your anchor.

If I did not have such wonderful friends on here I prob be either dead or in a metal hospital. You guy help keep me going and that means a lot to me.

I just want to share this and say thank you all and I just would hug you ( which is rare for me) if I ever meet you. Yall and this board makes me want to keep going. Ponies help and Ponies bring people together.
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Aww Ology! You're terrific and I really enjoy your posts! I know we just met thru the forum recently and I got to be your Secret Santa - which was SUPER fun!

It's great to have a pony friend that "gets it"! *SUPER HUGS* and Merry Christmas!
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I agree with you Ology, I have met some wonderful people through the pony forums. It is nice to have a place to go and talk with all your collecting buddies or just laugh with friends that you have something fun in common with. It certainly does make the difficult days easier. Like today for me was a lot less dizzy and I was on a lot more than I was able to be yesterday or the day before. So, I could tell I missed the place.
 
I love being here after something happens that upsets me. This place can make me feel better. My mom hit me with my hat which has lots of pins on it and call me Crazy and wearing a hat with pins on it is crazy.
She hit me twice on the top of the head and while not hurting just a little it hurt more on the inside. I get call a Lazy good for nothing to so this helps me out a lot here with ever one
 
Yeah I don't really have any friends irl

If I hang with anyone it's once or twice a year x.x

I typically have bad luck with friends. I might have hormone imbalance or something that causes me to push people away
 
That's mean and would've hurt my feelings too! I'm a fellow pin lover and I like to wear them all over my jackets, I'm sure some people think they're silly but I like them and think they're cute. I'd tell you not to care what people think if it makes you happy but I understand it's hard when people say stuff like that, just try to remember you aren't alone. There are lots of people who are different and like different things, that's what makes us special!
 
I totally understand! I think us Pony-Girls are often too nice, that's why we end up with other people being jerks to us in our lives. They figure they can get away with it from us because we will just forgive and forget. After too many instances to list, I had to learn to start cutting off people who were mean to me and to stop giving them hundreds of second and third and a gazillion chances and expecting them to change. It was me who had to change and start putting my foot down and removing people from my life who were mean to me repeatedly. When I started doing that, my life got A LOT BETTER. That includes me removing or limiting family members who were mean to me as well.

After I did that, I started to see that there were a few friends I had that were really great friends who knew how to give and take, rather than me being surrounded by abusive people who just wanted to treat me like garbage. Now I'm much happier, and my close friends are only people who actually do love me and are there for me.

I highly recommend it to other Pony-Girls who find they have an abundance of "Jerks" in their life.

I love this site, it's got lots of people like me who have soft hearts who are always trying to be good to others. I can honestly say I've never met a Pony-Friend who was a jerk. They have always been really nice! So I totally enjoy this site and getting to chat with all of you! I'm appreciative of all your friendships! Thank you!
 
IF I was more huggy ( I HATE being touched by none family or friends I know) I'd say we all need a group hug. Lets just do a air hug and try to be friends on here and that better then nothing to me.
 
Ology said:
IF I was more huggy ( I HATE being touched by none family or friends I know) I'd say we all need a group hug. Lets just do a air hug and try to be friends on here and that better then nothing to me.
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I don't like to be touched either. Not a very physically affectionate person. Only my daughter (we have a special bond), and animals. In a group setting at a place away from home, I seek out the animals for company.

I don't know what I'd do without the amazing friends I've made on here. You keep me strong when I feel like I'm drowning. You are the hand reaching out to pull me ashore. Nobody's quite like my pony friends.
 
Tak said:
I don't like to be touched either. Not a very physically affectionate person. Only my daughter (we have a special bond), and animals. In a group setting at a place away from home, I seek out the animals for company.

I don't know what I'd do without the amazing friends I've made on here. You keep me strong when I feel like I'm drowning. You are the hand reaching out to pull me ashore. Nobody's quite like my pony friends.
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Being touch to me is like having a million spider crawl over me. Now if its super close family and friends and animals I can put up with it for a bit.
 
Ology said:
Being touch to me is like having a million spider crawl over me. Now if its super close family and friends and animals I can put up with it for a bit.
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Ditto. It makes my skin crawl. Or worse, touch with no warning from behind and I might just thwack you. Honestly. I can "feel" my daughter around me, my dog watches my back and growls gently to alert me to people behind me. I can't stand people following me. (Shudder) I always choose a spot to stand or sit with a wall at my back and a visible escape route. Everyone who is in my life knows. I even let people know if I'm going to be around often (like my daughter's teacher). I occasionally let my parents or aide help me. I have one friend and she loves hugs, but never pushes. My daughter treats me like furniture at times. She's getting too big now. Animals are allowed to approach me, too. I don't even like children touching me. Except my own and I let my nephew as well.

Sad, but true, if you try to touch me without warning, and you're not a part of my pre approved pack, my little wolf will eat you.
My big tough 14 lb wolf with one short leg and a missing tooth. Yes, he will. o_O
 
Tak said:
Ditto. It makes my skin crawl. Or worse, touch with no warning from behind and I might just thwack you. Honestly. I can "feel" my daughter around me, my dog watches my back and growls gently to alert me to people behind me. I can't stand people following me. (Shudder) I always choose a spot to stand or sit with a wall at my back and a visible escape route. Everyone who is in my life knows. I even let people know if I'm going to be around often (like my daughter's teacher). I occasionally let my parents or aide help me. I have one friend and she loves hugs, but never pushes. My daughter treats me like furniture at times. She's getting too big now. Animals are allowed to approach me, too. I don't even like children touching me. Except my own and I let my nephew as well.

Sad, but true, if you try to touch me without warning, and you're not a part of my pre approved pack, my little wolf will eat you.
My big tough 14 lb wolf with one short leg and a missing tooth. Yes, he will. o_O
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I just get told to stop acting stupid and to get over it. When I was younger my mom used to whip me with a spoon sometimes when I jerk away from people.
I don't really see how that help me other then make me retreat further into myself. I got whipped for thing I think my sister did and my mom just needed to blame some one not her.
 
Ology said:
I just get told to stop acting stupid and to get over it. When I was younger my mom used to whip me with a spoon sometimes when I jerk away from people.
I don't really see how that help me other then make me retreat further into myself. I got whipped for thing I think my sister did and my mom just needed to blame some one not her.
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Oh my goodness! I'm so sorry @Ology I always got beaten with a wooden spoon, too! My sister would do something and blame me and they always believed her, so I learned how to lie from her. I'm not claiming innocence. Sometimes I was the wrongdoer. They never took my word over hers. I swore that if I ever had a child I would never resort to physical punishment. I feel for you. My dad actually broke a spoon by hitting me so hard. I'm so sorry you had to feel anything like it.
 
My mom likes to say well if we had known about you being a Aspi or asexual thing would have been different . I give her only some created there but still.
I think if a child is acting badly there should be a counter action. Not saying whippings or anything.
When I taught we used time out 1 min for how ever old the child was and we had a timer. When it was over we talked about why we done do those things and how we could hurt ourselves or others.
It work good on my 2 and younger 3 year old class.
So you can punishes without whipping. A popped hand of my nieces is not so bad but my sister can whip them with a spoon and I just want to leave the room.
 
Ology said:
My mom likes to say well if we had known about you being a Aspi or asexual thing would have been different . I give her only some created there but still.
I think if a child is acting badly there should be a counter action. Not saying whippings or anything.
When I taught we used time out 1 min for how ever old the child was and we had a timer. When it was over we talked about why we done do those things and how we could hurt ourselves or others.
It work good on my 2 and younger 3 year old class.
So you can punishes without whipping. A popped hand of my nieces is not so bad but my sister can whip them with a spoon and I just want to leave the room.
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It's the parents decision, but I cringe even hearing about spankings and other physical punishment. I even let my parents know that it was unacceptable to discipline Evelyn that way while they were watching her. She's officially an aspie now. We did time outs and talking, sometimes just a calm down to talk, and she gets privileges taken for a set period of time for other issues. It works pretty well overall for us. We have our moments, especially if it's me that's overwhelmed, but she's smart and understands so much more than most give her credit for. She knows that sometimes I get grouchy and that it's not her fault. She's never been hit or spanked.
 
Yea I am familiar with the spoons too. I can't really talk about what was done to me. I want to move away from my past and leave it far far behind me.
 
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My only reason to remember is so I don't do the same to my daughter. Otherwise I try to just move forward. Can't change what's past. ;)
 
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