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Good Afternoon,
Okay been reading through/catching up on the latest MLPTP happenings. And then got thinking... (non-mlp related) so I apologize in advance this post is long. Think I just need/want to get a stress off my chest and I guess... wondering if I should do something about it?
So it's in regards to gifts from family, for my kids & me (more so from my hubby's family). I guess this is where I am stuck whether I should and most likely will just leave it be or say something about it.
I have never been one to say no to a gift of any sort. But I find at times, that I really rather not receive a gift but cash or a gift card instead. Is this a common feeling for others?!
Personally I am quite money conscious (or at least I like to think that I am), where almost everything I buy for myself and my family (hubby & two kids) is usually second hand, on sale, or free (except grocery/food items, and whatever my hubby decides to by for himself clothing wise).
And today for example, I received a box of gifts for my kids as my youngest just turned one recently (gifts for both kids in the box)
(a) some won't fit at this point
(b) some I really don't need as I have tons
(c) rather they just sent cash or a gift card.
I guess I feel like I have missed out on deciding what my kids get to wear by someone else buying several clothing gifts for my kids. But also think if they (if his family members at least asked us (or me as I know what we have for clothing) or even my husband talked to his family more - like 'Hey just a fyi our kids now fit in size 4 and 2 but we have lots... and really don't need any.... until at least size 5 and 3'.
This is the same for toys (a toy for my youngest was also included) which is nice but all I want to do is return it and get something else. Ok feel like I am seriously jumping around as I type.
And then also had a time when I was shopping right with my hubby's mom for the kids (I of course had both kids with me at the time...) so I understand the intention is that I contribute to deciding what to get them. But seriously how the heck can I actively shop when I have two toddlers running around. So helped pick out maybe 6 things of the 20+ items purchased and $400+ spent. Yep $400, I have never spend that much money in my 30yrs of life even on myself in one store let alone an entire day. Yes I realize it's on two kids, and she saved up the money. But it could've been better utilized. Maybe that's my issue to, to see all this money spent when I would've spent it differently. Sigh
Okay I better stop, thank you all for listening/reading. Feel free to comment if you wish, any comments/suggestions are appreciated. And again another BIG Sigh!
~ Tammy
aka Baby Countdown
Okay been reading through/catching up on the latest MLPTP happenings. And then got thinking... (non-mlp related) so I apologize in advance this post is long. Think I just need/want to get a stress off my chest and I guess... wondering if I should do something about it?
So it's in regards to gifts from family, for my kids & me (more so from my hubby's family). I guess this is where I am stuck whether I should and most likely will just leave it be or say something about it.
I have never been one to say no to a gift of any sort. But I find at times, that I really rather not receive a gift but cash or a gift card instead. Is this a common feeling for others?!
Personally I am quite money conscious (or at least I like to think that I am), where almost everything I buy for myself and my family (hubby & two kids) is usually second hand, on sale, or free (except grocery/food items, and whatever my hubby decides to by for himself clothing wise).
And today for example, I received a box of gifts for my kids as my youngest just turned one recently (gifts for both kids in the box)
(a) some won't fit at this point
(b) some I really don't need as I have tons
(c) rather they just sent cash or a gift card.
I guess I feel like I have missed out on deciding what my kids get to wear by someone else buying several clothing gifts for my kids. But also think if they (if his family members at least asked us (or me as I know what we have for clothing) or even my husband talked to his family more - like 'Hey just a fyi our kids now fit in size 4 and 2 but we have lots... and really don't need any.... until at least size 5 and 3'.
This is the same for toys (a toy for my youngest was also included) which is nice but all I want to do is return it and get something else. Ok feel like I am seriously jumping around as I type.
And then also had a time when I was shopping right with my hubby's mom for the kids (I of course had both kids with me at the time...) so I understand the intention is that I contribute to deciding what to get them. But seriously how the heck can I actively shop when I have two toddlers running around. So helped pick out maybe 6 things of the 20+ items purchased and $400+ spent. Yep $400, I have never spend that much money in my 30yrs of life even on myself in one store let alone an entire day. Yes I realize it's on two kids, and she saved up the money. But it could've been better utilized. Maybe that's my issue to, to see all this money spent when I would've spent it differently. Sigh
Okay I better stop, thank you all for listening/reading. Feel free to comment if you wish, any comments/suggestions are appreciated. And again another BIG Sigh!
~ Tammy
aka Baby Countdown