Tell me about Thanksgiving

PrincessLyra

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This is probably going to get long, just a warning. ;)

A bit of background:
As many of you may already know, I'm Portuguese. Now, I'm actually pretty well-learned in regards to some everyday things US-based members are used to, even if I never had first-hand contact with them, but of course, different cultures, different settings, and some things will inevitably bring about a bit of intrigue/awkwardness. For example, for me eating Froot Loops was a new and interesting experience that I don't know when I'll be able to repeat again (sooooo much sweeter than the usual cereal brands around here, btw), whereas for most of the TP's US-based members it's as common as brushing your hair in the morning.
This extends to holidays as well. Our Mother's and Father's Day don't fall in the same days as in the US, Halloween has only started gaining prominence since the mid-2000s due to globalization taking effect (just the "decorating everything and dressing up on October 31st" part, though, no trick-or-treating), and Thanksgiving is, well, non-existant.
Which has always kind of made me scratch my head a bit. And I do mean "always", as in "since I was a kid".

When I was 4, I got a VHS tape of something called "Bugs Bunny's Thanksgiving Diet". It's a TV special that aired in the 70s, IIRC. I loved it, mostly because when I was a kid I loved ANYTHING Bugs Bunny, but as years went by and I learned how to read the subtitles, I realized: I had no idea what this "Thanksgiving" was. I knew it was a holiday, and that it had something to do with food, but I was extremely confused at the fact that it just wasn't celebrated, didn't show up anywhere in calendars, and that the few people around me that were familiar with it didn't know when it was.

As I grew older, I learned a bit more about it, but all in all, I still am quite uneducated about Thanksgiving. I could just do a Wikipedia search, but that's no fun, really. So in the spirit of cultural exchange, I wanted to ask my fellow US and Canada-based members of the TP about this holiday that remained a mystery to me throughout so many years, but seems like such a big deal over there. What it's about, its history, what do you do, what's on the menu (I know about the turkey and cranberry sauce, but that's as far as my knowledge takes me), what you like about it... Basically anything you think relevant to tell someone who's never celebrated the holiday.

Maybe one day later I can tell you all about a Portuguese holiday or something to even it out! :p
 
I don't really Care for Thanksgiving It is not my Favorite Holiday all I Look forward to really is The Meal and The Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade My Mom is the exact Same way we only care about Halloween and Christmas they are the only Holiday's we Care For
RH
 
Yes! I would love to hear about Portuguese holidays:)

Now as for thanksgiving...historically, it had something to do with the Native Americans and the European colonists deciding to stop fighting each other and instead take a day off and have a feast. The Native Americans were helping the colonists grow food. There is a famous Native American called Squanto that spoke English because of his travels to Europe, and he supposedly helped keep the peace between the natives and the colonists. Correct me if I'm wrong on any of this.

As for the modern holiday...well, basically we just eat a lot. Turkey, stuffing, cranberry sauce, pumpkin pie, pecan pie, green beans, and sweet potatoes at my family's house. And of course the family gets together and plays games and watches movies.

Then there is the day after thanksgiving which is called Black Friday: the busiest shopping day of the year. OMG, I don't go anywhere on black friday. It's insane. Every store has some crazy deals that people stand in huuuuuge long lines hoping they will get the deal before the stuff runs out. Amazon.com is my shopping place for black friday.

So tell us about some Portuguese holidays:)
 
We do not celebrate thanksgiving here (Finland) either and to my eyes that holiday have been look little bit weird :D. After seeing it dozen of times in movies, TV series etc. it doesn't seem so weird anymore.

But what a great idea to share some of our "own" holidays customs! ;) I will too!

I do not know how many countries celebrate midsummer (besides Finland and Sweden) but every summer when we have the longest day of sunlight it will be celebrated it (Around summer solstice). I'm not sure about the history but I guess that it was first to celebrate some god to get good harvest and also just enjoying the sun ;). Up in the north sun won't go down at all.
Modern days mid summer involves sauna, drunken people (unfortunately), bonfire, good food, great company etc. :)
Also mid summer has been magical time and I remember one "spell". You supposed to see you future husband if you gather 9 diffrerent flowers and put them under your pillow in midsumemr night and then you will see your future husband in your dreams..
 
Midsummer sounds awesome! Nothing better than a bonfire!

Does anyone know anything about Winter Solstice practices? I'm just curious because I've heard that it's a big deal in some countries and my birthday is on the winter solstice.
 
Thanksgiving is one of my favorite holidays cause it's when I get to do what I do best, and that is cook! Some families get together and do what we call potluck, which is where everyone brings a dish or maybe just a few family members will get together and cook everything or as is done in my house, everyone gets outta my way and I do it all (wouldn't have it any other way). The Macy's Thanksgiving parade is also a must. I love watching the parade on TV while I'm in the kitchen. I just like to see the balloons and the floats. I would never go see it in person though, too cold for me!
I don't know what facts are actually true but the story we were told growing up was that on Thanksgiving day the settlers and the Indians came together for a great feast. They put aside their differences and focused on the things they had to be grateful for and for what they were learning from each other. And whether it actually went down like that or not we are supposed to take this day to reflect on the things we have to be thankful for. There are traditional foods that most people have on Thanksgiving. Turkey, mashed potatoes, sweet potato casserole, green bean casserole, breads and rolls, stuffing, gravy. Desserts like pumpkin pie and in our family lime Jello salad, as well as other pies and yummy treats. There is usually a football game on if you're into that. Most people put their Christmas decorations up on Thanksgiving or the day after and yes the day after Thanksgiving is called black Friday, which in my opinion has gotten ridiculous. Basically stores would run crazy sales for people to get a head start on their Christmas shopping. These stores eventually started doing crazy things like opening at 2:00a.m. and such and now it's even gotten to the point where they are opening on Thanksgiving day for people to come for these sales. I can't stand that, I think it needs to be a day for people to spend with their families and I refuse to go out on Thanksgiving. I used to go out on black Fridays but I haven't done it in years. It's gotten too out of hand, people wait for hours in line, sometimes fights break out or people get trampled trying to make sure they get their hands on whatever item they are trying to buy. No thank you! It's funny, Thanksgiving should be a day of reflection and appreciation but once Walmart puts a 42" TV on sale for 100.00 the gloves come off and you better hope you don't get your eyes scratched out before you can get to the check out.
 
Keep in mind that US thanksgiving and Canadian thanksgiving are different. I think the Canadians had their thanksgiving already. It's in October I believe.

Our Thanksgiving came around as everyone else said. In Plymouth Massachusetts the English settlers and native Americans had a peace treaty and came together. This was after the settlers came over maybe only a year before from England and nearly died out till a few of the natives helped them to survive.

But now it's mostly eating and the parade which I love. My dad hates it cause he days it's just something to advertise Broadway now. He just doesn't like it since the rockettes stopped doing their wooden soldier routine.

Ps. I LOVE black Friday. I'm sorry that my mom and I aren't able to go out this year.
 
Yep we already had our Thanksgiving a while ago. Its different and we have a different reason for ours, its not the same as the US Thanksgiving (just so others know, a lot don't, even Americans).
 
Yep we already had our Thanksgiving a while ago. Its different and we have a different reason for ours, its not the same as the US Thanksgiving (just so others know, a lot don't, even Americans).

So tell me about Canadian Thanksgiving, I'm curious
 
Not that big of a difference but its originates over here. :) Easier for me to post a link if that is ok? Than to write this all out. I'm not sure about the Maritimes part though, but I would think they celebrate it over there too. I have a lot of online gaming friends in the US and they would always joke and tell me that the "real" thanksgiving is the American date and its only American and the whole time they've been wrong lol.
http://www.diffen.com/difference/Thanksgiving_in_America_vs_Thanksgiving_in_Canada
 
Not that big of a difference but its originates over here. :) Easier for me to post a link if that is ok? Than to write this all out. I'm not sure about the Maritimes part though, but I would think they celebrate it over there too. I have a lot of online gaming friends in the US and they would always joke and tell me that the "real" thanksgiving is the American date and its only American and the whole time they've been wrong lol.
http://www.diffen.com/difference/Thanksgiving_in_America_vs_Thanksgiving_in_Canada


I didn't know there was so many differences between Amercans and Canadiens thanksgiving.. the different date I already known but still :p

I guess that which country you live you think that your holiday is the right one from other same kind of holidays^^. I would not compare these two too much it seems there is a lot of different stuff.. Like I would not compare Finnish Christmas to any other countrys own Christmas (But you know Santa Klaus lives in Finland! ;D). But I'm nobodys side on this ;) just observing :p
 
Like I would not compare Finnish Christmas to any other countrys own Christmas (But you know Santa Klaus lives in Finland! ;D).

How so? Christmas is my favorite holiday, if Finland is where Santa lives I must come visit!
 
Not that big of a difference but its originates over here. :) Easier for me to post a link if that is ok? Than to write this all out. I'm not sure about the Maritimes part though, but I would think they celebrate it over there too. I have a lot of online gaming friends in the US and they would always joke and tell me that the "real" thanksgiving is the American date and its only American and the whole time they've been wrong lol.
http://www.diffen.com/difference/Thanksgiving_in_America_vs_Thanksgiving_in_Canada

Interesting....so yeah, pretty much the same only minus the Indians and I'm interested in this rice stuffing :confused: and spicy pumpkin pie...not too sure about that LOL
 
We have spicy pumpkin lattes too, I really love pumpkin pie, especially with the whipped cream.
 
How so? Christmas is my favorite holiday, if Finland is where Santa lives I must come visit!

Well he lives in Korvatunturi (I don't know the actual name for english) in Lapland (not in North pole). Here is Santas own website ;) http://www.santapark.com/en/ for tourists. But I bet he has secret place also in there were now one but elfs and him can enter ;).
 
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