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How rude!
People can be so cruel. I'm so sorry hun. Don't let other people define how you feel about yourself. They aren't worth it.
Very rude and mean
I hope you slapped the person who said that to you. So rude and they certainly deserve a slap across the face in my humble opinion, I've seen your photos and you are far from being an "ugly" woman. :xmashug:
people can be so rude. don't let someone's stupidity turn yourself against who you are. you are beautiful and super talented. focus on the good things in life no matter how small they are and push out all of the negative. :xmashug:
If they meant what they said than it is absolutely dreadful.
Where have manners gone these days? The old fashioned things that we used to get taught like if you have nothing nice to say, don't say anything at all. I'd like to wash their mouth out with soap. Ugh, I remember how horrid that was!
Don't listen to people who say stuff like that, they are not decent people and certainly not worth you wasting your thoughts on.
If they were saying it in jest, than they must not know you well enough because they obviously don't realise it hurts. You would have to know someone very very well to be able to say something like that in jest and know they were going to receive it as a joke and not be hurt.
I feel like that... it's like, I've always got a mean girl sitting on my shoulder, telling me that I'm never going to get married, or have a boyfriend, because I have acne, and adhd, and autism, and acne scars from my anxiety disorder called picking.
I'll scratch my face and sink without thinking until I bleed, I'll twirl my hair until the ends split, and I shake uncontrollably when I'm emotional.
I forget to do things, like the shopping for the week.
I have trouble with common sense, I will try everything but the correct answer
It's crushing... but it's ok! your not alone! Everybody hurts some times.
it'll be ok trust me.
Just pick one thing you really like about yourself and build of of that. Chip away at the shell you've made around your self, and your self-image.
And remember that you are (your name) and you don't care what they say, because you are you, and the best you is who you want to be!
Sorry, I sound like a bubbly blonde... I hope this helps you feel better!
Thanks guys. I've been avoiding reading responses to this cause I didn't want to spread negativity and dwell on it but it was a real mood I was on at the time
Basically some stranger attacked my personal appearance and misunderstood a comment I made and assumed it was something it wasn't. I'm used to this happening by now as a lot of people assume the worst about me. My former sis-in-law did that a lot too and it's why we were never close.
Well anyhoodle, I'm building myself up by reclaiming a rainbow goth personal style. I'm always most confident, comfortable and at my hest when I'm goth. A.lot more people find me more attractive too cause goth is just how I'm supposed to be.
This style was originally inspired by Tiff from Bride of Chucky. I fell in love with her look back around the year 2000 and should never let that go.
Also I returned to.this threaf cause... MY PSYCHIATRIST PUT ME ON ANTI-DEPRESSANTS!!!!! These are taken along with my ptsd meds!!!! So I'm hoping this fixes so much!!!!
So far, I'm on my very first pill. I'm feeling the need to just do everything I want, so far. I think that's a start.
Also, I HAD to take low sugar diet seriously so I've lost 10 lbs. since January 11th. I can now fit in my "Toys Were Us" shirt that used to be too tight for me to wear!
I hope I just keep shedding the lbs. like this.