My oh my. Have to share!

Ology said:
Personally I want a Mastectomy not because I want to be a boy or anything I just hate having a chest it does not make me feel normal. Same when I got my Histo (I had this done for medical reasons) but it was something I had always hoped I could have.
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I'd prefer they take the... uterus out entirely. But, no, they seem to think I need those parts. My mom almost died when she had me and they had to remove a tube and ovary to stop the hemorrhaging, but then when she had my brother (c-section) they required her to have my dad sign it as ok to take the other tube. Not for insurance, simply because he was her husband so she wasn't qualified to make that decision without his consent. I can't post words strong enough to describe how disgusted I have been by her story and others like it.
 
Tak said:
I'd prefer they take the... uterus out entirely. But, no, they seem to think I need those parts. My mom almost died when she had me and they had to remove a tube and ovary to stop the hemorrhaging, but then when she had my brother (c-section) they required her to have my dad sign it as ok to take the other tube. Not for insurance, simply because he was her husband so she wasn't qualified to make that decision without his consent. I can't post words strong enough to describe how disgusted I have been by her story and others like it.
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I can feel you on it being her choice and why would she need your father consent. I mean if it need two siggy yeah I could she that but it should be the person choice not anyone else.UNLESS its life or death like if I was dying and out of it and the one thing that could save my life was something like this and they ask say my parents. As being Asexual I do not or will I ever have a partner of any sex. Then I could see it being not a issue. Now if the person has stated to the other about life and death things the other party should respect there wishes.

But all in all its should be the person choice we don't live a society where certain people are more important then others.
Don't get me started on 3rd wave Femmie ( they would make the women who fought for what we had roll over in there graves). NOt a big fan of theirs. But this is only my Opinion in such manners and I don't like to stir the pot. I respect the idea that other people have but that does not mean I have to go along with it or make it my idea to.

But I don't like to get into these things much I don't vote I don't watch the news like most. I prefer to not freak out everytime I turn the TV on so I might be a little more shelter to the ways of the world but its the only way I can cope with things.
 
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For those who are binding, just take safety precautions. It can do real harm if it's done the wrong way. Don't want my pony pals getting hurt. :)
 
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Ology said:
I can feel you on it being her choice and why would she need your father consent. I mean if it need two siggy yeah I could she that but it should be the person choice not anyone else.UNLESS its life or death like if I was dying and out of it and the one thing that could save my life was something like this and they ask say my parents. As being Asexual I do not or will I ever have a partner of any sex. Then I could see it being not a issue. Now if the person has stated to the other about life and death things the other party should respect there wishes.

But all in all its should be the person choice we don't live a society where certain people are more important then others.
Don't get me started on 3rd wave Femmie ( they would make the women who fought for what we had roll over in there graves). NOt a big fan of theirs. But this is only my Opinion in such manners and I don't like to stir the pot. I respect the idea that other people have but that does not mean I have to go along with it or make it my idea to.

But I don't like to get into these things much I don't vote I don't watch the news like most. I prefer to not freak out everytime I turn the TV on so I might be a little more shelter to the ways of the world but its the only way I can cope with things.
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I shirk away from politics and controversy. This happened to my mother almost 33 years ago now and was at the U.S. naval hospital. Things have improved since then.

LadyMoondancer said:
For those who are binding, just take safety precautions. It can do real harm if it's done the wrong way. Don't want my pony pals getting hurt. :)
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I was in ballet 6 hours a day, 6 days a week. My reason for it was to keep movement to a minimum. Leotards are not made with any support and, while incredibly slim, my chest was just like, "I'm here to stay". Lol
 
LadyMoondancer said:
For those who are binding, just take safety precautions. It can do real harm if it's done the wrong way. Don't want my pony pals getting hurt. :)
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I am carful I don't have a Chest so much as binding over the years has kinda got them into a shape that allows me to bind and use a compression shirt. I was not gifted with a large chest anyway. I just really really hate having one.
I wish I could give my chest to some poor person who had breast cancer and they could have mine after they lost theirs. But that cant happen so binding is the best I can do.
 
Ology said:
I am carful I don't have a Chest so much as binding over the years has kinda got them into a shape that allows me to bind and use a compression shirt. I was not gifted with a large chest anyway. I just really really hate having one.
I wish I could give my chest to some poor person who had breast cancer and they could have mine after they lost theirs. But that cant happen so binding is the best I can do.
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I was a happy b for four years then it seemed overnight to be "hello dd". Surprisingly they are better after being gigantic milk tanks (g cup, I kid you not). Now they are deflated and, while still too big, they flatten out pretty well. All that extra skin again.
 
Oh I wasn't discussing cultural norms with respect to today @Ology I just meant back in the day those were cultural norms and like I did state- I see no problem if you like it enjoying what you love. Cultural norms now seem to be all over the place I am not sure we could narrow down norms anymore lol. I kind of can't relate to bigger boobs, mine have always been lemons. LOL The reason is when I was in 3-4th grade I was in a tight back brace. It stunted my normal development for two years thus tiny chested. I don't mind it at all actually. I live in those halter style bras they make for tweens. They are so much better than bras. No painful wires and pump it up padding. I love how these threads go from one topic to another. I agree with the steam punk thing. I love their costuming. I guess I don't see costuming as much of a problem since it is fun to dress up and be something or someone else for a day. That is just different. Today we live in a whatever floats your boat world.

With the respect to the news, I quit watching it. I can't handle it anymore. Yikes it is just really disturbing. So for us it is the weather report.

@Tak That story about your mom is really interesting as far as the siggy thing. I have never heard of that but don't doubt it. Sometimes if someone is on the operating table a loved one has to make a decision for you because, you are asleep. Sounds like this is just another weird thing that went on back in the day. There are a lot of things we have faced as ladies, but not just us...many groups of people for different reasons. My grandmother had a lot to say about things like that since she was an adult woman during the depression. I find these stories fascinating really. I love that historical stuff. I like to see progress we have made, but I also don't always agree with the extreme points of views on certain subjects. I am opinionated, but interested in changing my opinion if taught something reasonable I can relate to. LOL I love culture and people a lot.
 
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My growth plates were removed from my legs when I was young so that really stunted my growth. But I have a bone condition and it was the only way to keep me from eventually having to go into a wheelchair or have knee replacement.
 
@tulagirl I wish mine were small. My mother, sister, and aunts were all small chested. I've convinced Evelyn that it's better to have less, too. As for underwires, I hated them, until they got bigger. Now I find the added support to be necessary in minimizing back pain. I also don't fall for Victoria's secret's bull poo line about "oh we don't carry that size so just get bigger band size". The band is what provides the support. So many people don't understand that and how important it is. I have an unusual size since my ribs are only 33". I go to Macy's and find them on clearance because nobody else buys my size. Unfortunately even Macy's and Fredrick's of Hollywood don't carry the cup sizes I'd say most women need. My cargiver is an h cup with a 40 band and she's walking around stuffed in a 50 ddd. She'd have to special order or drive to torrid several malls away. $160 for a bra. I feel sad for her.
 
Oh my gosh I just can't even imagine that size, because I have always been an A lol.
 
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Tak said:
I'd prefer they take the... uterus out entirely. But, no, they seem to think I need those parts. My mom almost died when she had me and they had to remove a tube and ovary to stop the hemorrhaging, but then when she had my brother (c-section) they required her to have my dad sign it as ok to take the other tube. Not for insurance, simply because he was her husband so she wasn't qualified to make that decision without his consent. I can't post words strong enough to describe how disgusted I have been by her story and others like it.
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Why would she need his consent?! How infuriating!:mad:
 
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Just to lighten the mood a bit funny but true story. I am terrified of Victoria secret stores. Iono just wanted to lighten the mood a bit.
 
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Ology said:
Just to lighten the mood a bit funny but true story. I am terrified of Victoria secret stores. Iono just wanted to lighten the mood a bit.
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I've been in the one in our mall twice. I can live a happy life without going near it ever again. I'm that way with most stores, though. ;)
 
Tak said:
I've been in the one in our mall twice. I can live a happy life without going near it ever again. I'm that way with most stores, though. ;)
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I just don't like such femmien under garments. I hate going to those bridle party where you buy um... Underwear or things of that nature for the bride.

I call those moments I need an adult situations. My inner 2 and 5 year old selfs can't deal with it and I can't either.
 
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Ology said:
I just don't like such femmien under garments. I hate going to those bridle party where you buy um... Underwear or things of that nature for the bride.

I call those moments I need an adult situations. My inner 2 and 5 year old selfs can't deal with it and I can't either.
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My inner two year old is putting bras on my head, wondering why there's two, and how to make it work.
Five year old me is like"oo pretty lace" puts it on and dances around the house like Angelina ballerina in it.
I literally have no friends. I've never been to a bridal shower or bachelorette party. I went to a wedding as an acquaintance's plus one and was so close to my due date and emotional, that I had to leave because I couldn't stop crying. I went to two of my aunt's weddings and I was so little that I just remember being traumatized by eating what I thought was a chocolate covered raisin only to find an espresso bean.
 
Up to the age of 5 I ran around half naked swing from my rope swing with my leopard print top my grand mother made me.
I thought I was Tarzan. Sunday's was the day mom put me in dresses and bows and poofy crinolines.

As I got older and wore more clothing you can only be Tarzan for so long. I absolutely hated bras and other things.
I refused to wear them. My mom finally yielded and got sports bras but the older I got the more I hated being in a female body in some ways.

Normal if I had my way for me would be no chest a histo which I got. Purple hair and to loss weight.

I got the histo the purple hair and working on my weight. The chest issues I just guess I have to deal with it.

I still can't stand all these strange genereds and pronoun people come up with now. Just silly to me but I just don't bother them.

I do hate going by my given name as no one says it right even my mom who gave it to me.
 
I am about comfort too. I cant stand wearing jeans anymore I wear yoga pants. I just double them up when the weather gets cold. My MIL thinks that women who dont want to breed anymore should get fixed and have operation. I feel there is no need for me to do that. :/ Unless I have cancer there why bother? everythings working ok so far there except for my other long term health issues. Also its no ones business and futhermore its everones right to decide if they want to or not.
Tak - I just want to reach over and give you hugs. :/ but, I cant imagine the world without you. :/
Tula- I know right that movie was a blast I love it.
Law - I totally agree stuff like what happened to tak would make me angry too.
My mom had issues with losing children that was why Im a only child it wasnt in her cards to have anymore kids. As for me Im happy with what I have a healthy kid. Im not a greedy person. And the one I do have is a very well behaved girl. :)
 
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