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Lordy bee I though our post was bad :xmashug:

LOL see what happens is Houston has no idea how to handle a winter storm. We are a warmer climate city. When this winter storm happened the entire city shut down. The reason is we can't drive on ice and snow without killing everyone on the road lol. So, they stress closing businesses and letting people stay home. So, the post office closed for like three days and that is all it too to screw up everything. Now my package is lost and they can't find it. I have no idea when all of this will be fixed. First Harvey now this. Mind you I never got that call.
 
LOL see what happens is Houston has no idea how to handle a winter storm. We are a warmer climate city. When this winter storm happened the entire city shut down. The reason is we can't drive on ice and snow without killing everyone on the road lol. So, they stress closing businesses and letting people stay home. So, the post office closed for like three days and that is all it too to screw up everything. Now my package is lost and they can't find it. I have no idea when all of this will be fixed. First Harvey now this. Mind you I never got that call.
I hope it was not something so great it can't get replaced.
 
Oh I got a call today that they finally found it and it would have been a hard one to find again in the condition it was in so, lucky me I finally have it now. wewwwww
 
Oh I got a call today that they finally found it and it would have been a hard one to find again in the condition it was in so, lucky me I finally have it now. wewwwww
And there was much rejoicing!
 
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So, I call mom this morning. Mind you yesterday I told her a total of six times I was going to be leaving town to come see her for her birthday. I call her this morning and she proceeds to tell me that I came yesterday. Why am I coming today? Its your birthday and we will be there in an hour and a half. "It's my birthday?" "Yes." Okay she says. I love my mom, but this is madness for me. She is so confused and no matter what I try to do to prepare her she just doesn't get it. How could she think I was there yesterday? Alzheimer's is unfair. Its like she can't make the connection that I told her six times I could not come on Saturday and it would be Tomorrow. I called her six different times throughout the day and early evening to remind her. Somehow she thinks I came yesterday. She has no gift and she never saw me but she is convinced I was there. So much so she told my dad and he doesn't understand why we came yesterday either. GaH
 
So, I call mom this morning. Mind you yesterday I told her a total of six times I was going to be leaving town to come see her for her birthday. I call her this morning and she proceeds to tell me that I came yesterday. Why am I coming today? Its your birthday and we will be there in an hour and a half. "It's my birthday?" "Yes." Okay she says. I love my mom, but this is madness for me. She is so confused and no matter what I try to do to prepare her she just doesn't get it. How could she think I was there yesterday? Alzheimer's is unfair. Its like she can't make the connection that I told her six times I could not come on Saturday and it would be Tomorrow. I called her six different times throughout the day and early evening to remind her. Somehow she thinks I came yesterday. She has no gift and she never saw me but she is convinced I was there. So much so she told my dad and he doesn't understand why we came yesterday either. GaH

My Grandmother had Alzheimer, Its is a horrible thing when your forgotton or told you already came by. My grandmother got mad cause she though me and my mom were at the store and would not speak to her. We were are home all day and never went out. The worst was when she kept saying I was stealing things from her like her vaccum and silly thing like that. Iono why I was doing it of all the people she saw I did not see her at her home often but it was me doing it. She finally said ok your not and that was it. Its something that make you want to scream at them but you have to understand they cant help it and that is the sad part.
 
Yes I know. I am feeling guilty that I can't handle this very well. I do love her so much, but I don't know her anymore. When I am with her I just feel like the she draining me so badly. I miss the beauty of her home. She has a massive home and it was always so beautiful. Now she has let it go and its full of crap, bugs and trash. My mother was OCD about cleaning so seeing her like this breaks my heart. It not only scares me to death about what is going to happen, but how in the world we will manage with me disabled. I know it isn't her fault, but it hurts so deeply its just really hard to cope. I find I want to run back home and that 2-4 hours is about all I can take with her at this stage. She had lost her telephone and I went through the whole house trying to find it for her. I finally found it outside on the trashcan. I think I am going to need some therapy to handle this. I admit that I am falling short and I need coping skills, support and big time help. I am angry that my step father refuses to get her any supportive care and because I am out of control of the situation I can't do anything for her. I have had to step aside due to him. It is hard not to resent him for this, but I can't go there either.
 
Yes I know. I am feeling guilty that I can't handle this very well. I do love her so much, but I don't know her anymore. When I am with her I just feel like the she draining me so badly. I miss the beauty of her home. She has a massive home and it was always so beautiful. Now she has let it go and its full of crap, bugs and trash. My mother was OCD about cleaning so seeing her like this breaks my heart. It not only scares me to death about what is going to happen, but how in the world we will manage with me disabled. I know it isn't her fault, but it hurts so deeply its just really hard to cope. I find I want to run back home and that 2-4 hours is about all I can take with her at this stage. She had lost her telephone and I went through the whole house trying to find it for her. I finally found it outside on the trashcan. I think I am going to need some therapy to handle this. I admit that I am falling short and I need coping skills, support and big time help. I am angry that my step father refuses to get her any supportive care and because I am out of control of the situation I can't do anything for her. I have had to step aside due to him. It is hard not to resent him for this, but I can't go there either.

My grandmother had to pass around and around by her kids to be cared for it was not mean or anything but my dad and my aunt worked and my other aunt lived 3 states away. So we all had to take turns to care for her. Her home was pilled high. She call everyone other people name. I was scared to be alone with her cause of her fits when she got mad. It killed me to see this person who I loved who took care of me when I was little and sick and told me story. Never wiped me or yelled at me and bought me things when my parent just did not have the money to turn into someone I did not know.
I got call all kinda things and yelled at a lot cause I did not want to be alone with her, but I think my parent understand with my anxity and all why I was like that. Then it was your just acting spoiled and don't want to help.
It makes you want to hit something or scream to the sky. I understand how you feel a lot.
 
Thanks @Ology yea in this situation it is me, me and only me as I have no siblings to help me care for mom. No relatives left living either to help with mom. I am disabled myself. I doubt what I can do when I can't do much for myself. Very scary times. All I can do is my best, but with my step father controlling everything I can't do anything. If he was gone though I couldn't do what he is doing. So, in a way its just tough. I hope she remembers her birthday cake.
 
Thanks @Ology yea in this situation it is me, me and only me as I have no siblings to help me care for mom. No relatives left living either to help with mom. I am disabled myself. I doubt what I can do when I can't do much for myself. Very scary times. All I can do is my best, but with my step father controlling everything I can't do anything. If he was gone though I couldn't do what he is doing. So, in a way its just tough. I hope she remembers her birthday cake.
:xmashug:not much to offer but if you ever need to talk about something pm me I got a good ear.
 
You are a sweetie and thank you. I wish I had wings and a unicorn horn so I could change everything and fly away when I needed to. I would find this awesome island and build a little hut house and just fly there for peace and quiet and come home after a nice vacation. The only problem is knowing me something would happen. baaaa
 
You are a sweetie and thank you. I wish I had wings and a unicorn horn so I could change everything and fly away when I needed to. I would find this awesome island and build a little hut house and just fly there for peace and quiet and come home after a nice vacation. The only problem is knowing me something would happen. baaaa
I go into the mountain deep down with a dusty library of rare books on many things and find more useless information and pour over my paranormal things and have haunted tea party with my dolls LOL.
we invite you to them if you would want to come my dolls would be very nice
 
@Ology and @tulagirl I'm really scared I'll get early onset Alzheimer's or even dementia due to my head injuries and mental health issues. I told Evelyn to please just let me go if that happens. I love her and I know she loves me and won't want to, but I don't want her to have to deal with everything I've seen others do. She also knows I have a dnr in place for the eventuality.
 
@Ology and @tulagirl I'm really scared I'll get early onset Alzheimer's or even dementia due to my head injuries and mental health issues. I told Evelyn to please just let me go if that happens. I love her and I know she loves me and won't want to, but I don't want her to have to deal with everything I've seen others do. She also knows I have a dnr in place for the eventuality.
:xmashug:I am here if you ever want to talk. All of us care for you and Evelyn. We are here for you. You are very much care about on here.:xmashug:
 
@Tak I share your concern but for a different reason. My grandmother had this, her brother had this and now my mother. What is in store for me? I don't have any children either. I am sorry you are facing the possibility as well. I guess we have to remain hopeful that it will not happen. There is always hope.
 
@tulagirl you would be surprised how much exercising your mind can hold off Alzheimer's. You seem to be a very intellectual person. Keep hope that it will keep your mind whole longer. *hugs* I'm always here if you need to talk and repeating yourself is entirely ok.
 
On a different subject, I was explaining medications to my daughter and why I take as little as possible. The subject came up after watching a special about poisonous animals. They use neurotoxins and other vemons from snakes and spiders to make medication. Especially for blood pressure and *ahem* male performance problems. My daughter asked why and how the could distribute poison and call it medicine.
My response was how I see it. Almost all medications are poison. Caffeine, tobacco, alcohol, and *********, too. In addition to all the still illegal drugs. That's why you can overdose. These things weren't made to be processed and used by the human body. Even penicillin can kill you. It's mold. It's like using chemotherapy on cancer, just on a smaller scale. Or like the radioactive iodine I took to stop my hyperactive thyroid. This is why I refuse to put her on adhd medication. She's 8. The long term effects could be disastrous for her brain function.
So she understands as I see it. She also understands why we still take some medication. I'm medicated, so I can be better for her and her grandmother takes blood pressure medicine because her son wouldn't function without her. Yet she knows why I like to keep her off anything.
Does anyone have an opinion to add? Or information? There are a large number of people in our area who are of the opinion that, if nature made it, it's good for you. Then they get upset when it's pointed out how many that natural substance kills annually. I'm not talking about car accidents and such I'm just referring to overdose, allergic reaction, and poisoning.
I'm very interested in everyone's point of view.
 
Oh I totally agree that natural is no safer. Sorry to all the people that think natural is best. It is not. Even the FDA is realizing this when babies have died as a result of parents using a natural substance for I think it was colic or something. Saw that on the news lately. I think it had belladonna in it or something.
Medications are quite toxic. I am leery of them because of chemical sensitivity. If you went back to 1700 to live how would you feel watching all your loved ones pass away from something you saw in 2017 could be fixed with an IV fluids and fever reducer? Yea the fever reducer can kill a person that is allergic to it. So, when it comes to medication it is really important for us to consider whether or not the cure will leave us in worse shape than the illness we have. The problem with Adhd medication is it is a stimulant. It doesn't matter to me how this drug is metabolized different in children, it is not a good medication for children. However, there are children that are so very ill that they would not learn and would not function and end up with a terrible future if something wasn't done to help them. These are the children that sadly will need medication.

This is a very difficult issue. It requires a lot of consideration. It is difficult to explain this to a child. They are young and don't really need to know about all the horrors of life they will have to face as an adult.

The story of Pearl Kenrick and Grace Eldering and their struggle as scientists to save lives of children dying from whopping cough is one of my favorites. You gotta picture this scene. Moms crying bringing in children by the hundreds that can not breathe. It was an awful way to die and terrible for the parents. Kids were dying left and right. It was a crisis of huge proportions. They were trying to save them and they lost many in the process but eventually, they came up with something that has saved so many lives it is not even funny. The were known to work with arsenic back in those day mind you. Shivers at the thought. Gah

Think about polio and how it has crippled and killed so many and even the dangers of tuberculosis and how it destroyed families. These were hard times in our history. We can thank the scientists that struggled to use forms of what you would call poison to save lives. Take small pox. They actually inject you with live virus to vaccinate you with that. Entire towns were wiped out by these diseases. Just a fever could kill an entire family. Fever today is a parent grabbing Tylenol and keeping an eye on their child. Fever before was almost a death sentence. So, always have to look at it from both sides. The fact is the very cure we have will save many, but some will die from it. This is always going to be the case. I lost my friend to an antibiotic reaction. She was only 40. Booooo I guess if I had a child we would study the pioneers in science and how they have saved lives and talk about this heroic losses because the losses helped find the cures. Sigh...such a hard topic. I think I have ocd'd it to death again ROFLOL. But I am not sure I answered your question because, I was on another kick with it.

I will step down from my soap box now. ROFLOL

Oh and I just love the fact that when they invented Laudanum they had no idea it was so addictive and by the time they figured it out they had a huge crisis on their hands trying to figure out how to treat the massive amounts of people going through withdrawal. Man I want a good empty Laudanum bottle just for the history of it since I suffer from pain. The history of pain treatment fascinates me. Thank you for leaving your leeches at home!

Great topic I could go on for hours on it but I will restrain myself. Tee hee
 
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Oh I totally agree that natural is no safer. Sorry to all the people that think natural is best. It is not. Even the FDA is realizing this when babies have died as a result of parents using a natural substance for I think it was colic or something. Saw that on the news lately. I think it had belladonna in it or something.
Medications are quite toxic. I am leery of them because of chemical sensitivity. If you went back to 1700 to live how would you feel watching all your loved ones pass away from something you saw in 2017 could be fixed with an IV fluids and fever reducer? Yea the fever reducer can kill a person that is allergic to it. So, when it comes to medication it is really important for us to consider whether or not the cure will leave us in worse shape than the illness we have. The problem with Adhd medication is it is a stimulant. It doesn't matter to me how this drug is metabolized different in children, it is not a good medication for children. However, there are children that are so very ill that they would not learn and would not function and end up with a terrible future if something wasn't done to help them. These are the children that sadly will need medication.

This is a very difficult issue. It requires a lot of consideration. It is difficult to explain this to a child. They are young and don't really need to know about all the horrors of life they will have to face as an adult.

The story of Pearl Kenrick and Grace Eldering and their struggle as scientists to save lives of children dying from whopping cough is one of my favorites. You gotta picture this scene. Moms crying bringing in children by the hundreds that can not breathe. It was an awful way to die and terrible for the parents. Kids were dying left and right. It was a crisis of huge proportions. They were trying to save them and they lost many in the process but eventually, they came up with something that has saved so many lives it is not even funny. The were known to work with arsenic back in those day mind you. Shivers at the thought. Gah

Think about polio and how it has crippled and killed so many and even the dangers of tuberculosis and how it destroyed families. These were hard times in our history. We can thank the scientists that struggled to use forms of what you would call poison to save lives. Take small pox. They actually inject you with live virus to vaccinate you with that. Entire towns were wiped out by these diseases. Just a fever could kill an entire family. Fever today is a parent grabbing Tylenol and keeping an eye on their child. Fever before was almost a death sentence. So, always have to look at it from both sides. The fact is the very cure we have will save many, but some will die from it. This is always going to be the case. I lost my friend to an antibiotic reaction. She was only 40. Booooo I guess if I had a child we would study the pioneers in science and how they have saved lives and talk about this heroic losses because the losses helped find the cures. Sigh...such a hard topic. I think I have ocd'd it to death again ROFLOL. But I am not sure I answered your question because, I was on another kick with it.

I will step down from my soap box now. ROFLOL

Oh and I just love the fact that when they invented Laudanum they had no idea it was so addictive and by the time they figured it out they had a huge crisis on their hands trying to figure out how to treat the massive amounts of people going through withdrawal. Man I want a good empty Laudanum bottle just for the history of it since I suffer from pain. The history of pain treatment fascinates me. Thank you for leaving your leeches at home!

Great topic I could go on for hours on it but I will restrain myself. Tee hee

I love you on your soap box. Well informed, background information for your opinions, and always some humor added. Evelyn was horrified when she learned about the use of leeches and maggots. They do still occasionally use them. Ew!
Anyway. I'm thankful for our vaccines. As long as you're not allergic I think that you should have your children inoculated. There's been more outbreaks of whooping cough and even polio simply because of people who believe that the vaccine will harm their kids. It's like it says on every rx ever "your doctor has prescribed this with the conviction that it's help will outweigh the side effects." Isn't that why they're called side effects? Either they are worth it or not.
Evelyn seems to understand. I've also explained why I really hope she will stay away from any illegal drugs or recreational (tobacco, alcohol, weed, unnecessary narcotics) until she's allowed her brain to develop. She knows that I would love for her to never try anything, but once she's of age, I really don't have a say. I also want her to be able to always be honest with me and know that she'll be loved no matter what. Parenting is HARD. My Wesley is so easy to understand. I'm lucky enough to have a pretty smart kid.
Now that I've rambled on.... :oops:
Yes I value our advanced medical technology, but don't want to harm the body since there is no such thing as a scientific miracle cure.
 
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